Few loves artful people that constantly need to be on the alert to avoid becoming a victim of fraud. At the same time, many innocent women trick men are quite nice, even if unravel their meaning. Many women even believe that only cunning and can be obtained from a loved one desired.

Unlike tricks of manipulation

For many centuries, women were in a subordinate position. They could not pound the table, as the modern lady, and to demand satisfaction of their own interests and have not been able to move away from the men who came not to their liking. All they had to - to cheat, manipulate, and gradually forcing the couple to do so anyway. Having mastered the art of a perfect woman gains power over their husbands, and sometimes not only on them.

By and large, cunning and manipulation - is the same. In any case, a woman makes a man behave in a certain way that is beneficial to her. But when a woman manipulates she thinks only of his own advantage, without taking into account the feelings of the beloved. The trick - a mild effect, which takes into account the interests of both sides. Thus, man is not simply behaves as beneficial to women, but also gets pleasure from the process.

Of course, the line between cunning and manipulation is usually quite conventional: it manipulator never recognized that act from selfish motives. And still it can be considered a more effective method of trick effects, because as a result the man does not feel used.

Nowadays

Despite the fact that modern women have the same rights as men, women's tricks are still popular. In most cases, such tricks is much more efficient than direct pressure or outright manipulation. Furthermore, they do not contribute to the deterioration of relations partners.

Can men solve their beloved innocent tricks? Girls are sure that it is absolutely impossible. In fact, men are often well aware of what was going on, but it really pays to behave as he wants their beloved.

Common female tricks

In contrast to the manipulations that are quite standard, tricks can infinitely vary depending on the situation. For example, a girl can carefully choose his favorite jacket in the store only in order to then "for a minute" to go to a nearby department store, which sells coats, and, of course, do not get out of there without buying. But if she just tried to convince her lover that she needed a coat, he would surely find a lot of counter-arguments. However, care and contented themselves and new acquisition (no doubt she will try to pick the best of him), he was happy to pay for the purchase of fur coats.

Many women pretend to be cold and distant, was extinguished to excite interest in them. If this does not work, the course is "heavy artillery" - trying to cause jealousy Jealousy and what to do with it . This age-old game is very effective. As a result, a man enjoying a hypothetical victory over rival and consciousness of their own uniqueness, and a woman - returned to her interest and a sense of power over their own loved ones.

Another classic technique - imaginary helplessness. Boys are taught that girls - being weak and in need of protection. Although adult men are usually unaware that their beloved is not as weak as it seems (as she managed somehow to survive so many years before meeting him?), Is pleased to help the beautiful ladies. Women are happy to pose as helpless creatures who are unable to buy in the store a pack of butter without dangerous adventures, and as a result deftly shift some of its responsibilities to the man's shoulders. Of course, a brave knight did not go unrewarded: grateful beloved sure to remind him that without his help she would be gone for a long time in this cruel and unjust world full of dangers.

Often, women's tricks are related to the sexual sphere. Where else can a weak creature can convince a man that he was right, if not in bed? If the beloved mad with passion, he certainly will not argue if gently tell him about the planned visit of Tiffany. Or, say, the amount spent on new shoes. Although in the latter case, all individually if tightfisted favorite, the news could shock him so much that there is no sex in the evening it will be gone.

Life without tricks

Many women find the most effective cunning hints. Not everyone can just offer a favorite a hand and heart, but it is hoped that "casual" wedding salon visit will push him to to make an offer. But it should be recognized that men are often allusions to the deaf. In most cases, they are much more receptive to direct suggestions and requests candid than lengthy stories about, for example, that in front of us for a very reasonable price sells a lovely ring with diamonds.

Some men understand the allusions, but in principle they do not respond. In this case, really better to just ask for what you need. And if you support his request to a reasonable argument, then the answer will probably be yes.

Many men who had once offended their evil beloved, believe all women cunning and deceitful creatures. Such a man will see the trick, even where it is not. Trying to manipulate this situation - is to risk ratios. Nothing remains but to show him her crystal honesty and frankness of the tricks is to have time abstain.

Maria Bykov

"Women - are complex creatures - many men complain about. - They can not understand. " Of course, we can not agree with it. A woman is easy to understand - you need only to be open to dialogue and ready without hostility and prejudice to perceive the difference between your wants and desires of women. It is quite natural that sometimes it is the behavior of men woman inspires an irresistible desire to run without looking back.

• He is either too fast making a decisive step or not make it at all. Men often make the mistake of giving the first date for some exceptional value. In this case, the girl pinned too high expectations, and this situation causes her discomfort and the desire to escape. On the other hand, if a man behaves vague, and did not give the girl to understand how it applies to it, it is also upset.

• He promises to call, but does not. Women appreciate men in the reliability and fidelity to one's word. So do not make rash promises to women, just to please or avoid embarrassment. Eventually, the woman formed an unflattering opinion of you, she can tell her friends or your common friends.

• He calls in the evening. Men have a bad reputation - is considered to be that of the women they need only one. Therefore, it is not necessary to call a woman only when you want to spend the night with her. A woman wants to be part of the daily lives of men - is a sign of his respect and taken seriously.

• He tells obscene or derogatory to women jokes or stories. It seems obvious, but many men do not realize that behave chauvinistic, humiliating a woman to a state of sexual objects. If you wear a T-shirt with the image of half-naked women or obscene inscription, do not be surprised that women are not in a hurry to go on a date with you.

• He is jealous and asks about previous relationships women. Jealousy - a tricky thing, the main thing is not to overdo it, as there is a reasonable concern, but there is paranoia Paranoia - explicit symptoms are not observed . But previous novels, relationships and communication - a taboo on the first date. No woman wants to meet a man who gave her a scene of jealousy, if she smiles waiter.

• He likes generalizations about the nature of women. Women just absolutely can not stand it when a man begins to talk about women, about what they "really" what they feel and what they want. Men, remember: if you really know what women want, you would not have appeared on this date! We would be sitting at home at home, a loving wife and children!

• He is trying to "treat", rather than to listen. Men need to understand that to build a successful long-term relationship is not so difficult. They will automatically seek to resolve any problem, and the process is very straining himself and a woman. As a result, they feel anger, and vent it to the woman when their attempts to "help" to nothing lead or remain unappreciated appreciated. Men need to understand that women are very emotional - they just need to listen. Learn to listen to a woman - and she will carry you on their hands.

• He talks too much about money and about themselves (whether good or bad). Men tend to immediately bring down a woman with her legs pressure, take it by storm, talking about how to earn a lot, and some have reached dizzying heights in life. But a woman may think that you are not interested in anyone or anything other than himself. Treat a date as an opportunity to learn a Woman, the process of mutual discovery - do not lay out all your secrets from the doorway! Suppose she learns what you are generous, kind and courageous - she will appreciate you more, since she made this discovery. But self-deprecation and will not cause sympathy - at best a girl you regret.

• He makes too many compliments Compliments and their meaning: do not mistake the words   and shamelessly flattered. Self-confidence and their own sexuality Nine ways to experience their sexuality   men never climb out of their way to please. Of course, the compliments and romance Romance - trap for women?   - A good thing, but the man does not have to be so gallant that women feel uncomfortable and she feels tired out game. The atmosphere on a date to be easy and relaxed, and not resemble the siege of the fortress. On the other hand, if a man unsure of himself and suppressed silence, it is also not cause a woman tender feelings.

• He does not give a woman a word in, and speaks only of himself. The most important task of the man on the first date - how can you get to know a woman. To do this, ask questions, listen and try to understand. In addition, it requires much less effort than is required to arrange a ride unprecedented selfishness, and it is only more inclined to you a woman. In addition, learning about all of you already on a first date, a woman may lose interest in you and your efforts will be lost in vain.